I've been pulling my hair out on this too.
I've followed your instructions,
I've tried deleting my product and recreating it,
I have a attribute called "Download" and "Yes" (case sensitve)
I'm using unreal.zip from the download directory. (case sensitive)
I reviewed my admin/download settings - true true 7 5, I've also tried true false 7 5
I reviewed my configuration.php and confirmed that download and pub are followed by /
I do not have a manufacturer called "downloads"
I've tried leaving quantity, model, image, url, weight blank.
I'm testing purchases by using creditcard order and manually setting them to "delivered" via admin
When I log in as a user, I do NOT see any download link.
I have not modified any templates - it's the default installed "oscommerce look"
gzip compression is DISABLED
CLEAN install of osCommerce Online Merchant v2.2 RC2a , with credit card and paypal modules
I have gone to admin, localization, order status and set Download status on for even pending orders.
What I get is this. Nothing is linked or downloadable.
Any help on how to get the link, passwords etc to show up will be greatly appreciated!
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