I'm not sure about the legalities, but I do know that when I drop ship to a customer who is located in the same state as my supplier, the supplier charges me tax. Essentially, I think it's because the transaction is happening in the same state, so I would think you should collect the tax, if you are being charged the tax (unless it's small enough you can afford to absorb it into the price).
I do know that if you reside in x state and you physically sell an item in the same state you are to collect and pay sales tax. Again, I don't know the rules for internet and "mail order" sales anymore. I was still under the impression that mail order sales are not taxable unless the customer resides in the state where the company is doing business.
When you register your "business" be it, physical store, mail order, internet, etc. they get an address from you. I think they would base your "location" off of that address unless you can prove that you don't do business there or from there. For example, I work online from my home, but I also sell at flea markets out of state. I only collect tax from people who live in my state and not at all when I sell at the market because there is no business relationship with the 2nd state. I'm not sure if this is legal, but the requirements of the market do not tell me I need to have a license to sell there...
Not sure if I added anything to this or just made it worse, LOL. In anycase, I too would love to know the "legalities" of doing business online (if there are any in place yet). I think it's still a grey area and the states/feds are trying to figure out how to tax it.
I look forward to further replies.
AJ
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